Let's Spread Kindness
" The most precious gift you can give someone is the gift of your time and attention '' -Nicky Gumbell
After experiencing some very difficult times in my life, I realised I struggled with asking for help,
I thought I had to do everything on my own
(spoiler alert: you can’t !) and that I was weak if I
asked for help. Despite my struggling I was so thankful for the help I received!
But not only the help, also all the ways people would let me know they thought of me,
things like: a card in the mail, a phone call to cheer me up, a cup of tea together, etc.
Little things matter a lot
And that made me wonder if there is anything I can do to spread this feeling of being seen in difficult times. That is where Cher Ami came to be: a perfect combination of helping others and being able to be crafty ,I’ll take any excuse to be crafty, but this really is a good reason 🙂
So hop on over to the downloads, click, print and encourage someone today !

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I know that I love to help others, but I could be insecure on how to offer. What if they didn’t want help or what if they wanted help that I couldn’t offer ?
So I started to think of a way to make asking for and offering help easy
How does this card system work ?
- click on the link you ll find a pdf you can download and print (search for "I can help you with card system", you can also print envelopes they are made to fit this)
- Cut the cards
On the "I can help you with" card write down what you can do to help, for example: I can take you out for a coffee, cook you a meal, pick up your kids from
sports every Thursday, fold your laundry, bake you a cake, etc.
- put the I can help you card in the smaller envelope and write your adress on that envelop
- put the other card and smaller envelope in the bigger envelope, you write the adress of the receiver on that envelope.
You are now ready to give or mail ( don’t forget to put a stamp on both envelopes if you are mailing it ) it to the receiver.The receiver will see the “ I can help you with’ card. He/she can easily put a cross in front of the thing he/she would love/needs the most. Then he/she can put the card in the envelope that has your address on it and give/mail it back to you.You now know what help is most needed, it is simply a matter of making an appointment and you are good to go!
Cher Ami is all about spreading kindness & encouraging and making the world a better place AND we need your help with that!
Together we can reach so many more people.
We'd love for you to join our Cher Ami community, so please join us on Facebook and Instagram and share your stories about spreading kindness and encouraging in a safe place.
I also encourage you to always have some cards with you, so you can give them away to people, or leave them on a place they will be found
Random acts of kindness are amazing and you don’t have to stick to the Cher Ami products:
buy someone a coffee, share a smile, make conversation, do whatever you would like to receive
Little things matter a lot !


